Post # 1
So I am a first timer but I really need peoples help. So I have a very small family and our party was very small 2 on each side. I made my only brother my best man which he accepted. Than he got into a huge fight with my mother 2 weeks ago, and now the wedding is 6 weeks away and he said he cannot be best man because he could be too close to my mom on the day of. He decided he would still come to the wedding but would not stay at the inn (a destination wedding) where we were paying for everyones room who was in the party: to be away from my mother. However, after he realized the prices of rooms, he wants the room back and we gave it away. AHHH WHAT DO I DO? My other half says screw him for leaving the wedding party but I really want him there; he is my only sibling. PLEASE HELP!!
Post # 3
Is there any way that you could get another room added?
Post # 4
Can he “bunk” w/ someone else also staying in the wedding? I say, take him back in the wedding (if this is what he also wants) but he needs to be on his own w/ finding accomodations since you’ve already attempted to assist him in this and he declined. Maybe one of the guests w/ a room will back out in between now and then?
Sorry you are having family difficulties – this is not the time to be stressed and it sucks – I’m in th same boat (w/ family issues) and it makes me want to scrap the whole wedding, especially since we are already legally married.
Post # 5
I think he needs to figure it out and be there for you 🙁
Post # 6
I think you should do what you can to get him back in the Inn, but hunny, you have much bigger things to worry about at this point! I’m sure you don’t have time to deal with his indecisiveness. It’s his fault for ultimately taking that fight out on you (I mean who are his decisions really affecting!?) and he needs to grow up and ‘go with the flow’ from here on out. Just worry about you and your soon to be hubby at this point. The rest will all fall into place. 🙂