(Closed) Family suck! Another reason why I don't want to invite them to my wedding!

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 5
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624 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I know how you feel, I have several family members on my mother’s side that have disrespected her to the point where I want nothing to do with them and don’t need them in my life whatsoever.  I made it very clear to her that under no circumstances will they be recieving an invitation to my wedding.  They are not part of my life in any other way so why should my wedding be an exception?  I totally get it. 

Post # 6
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872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

It’s like…..I wrote this…. O_O; 

We are going through almost the exact thing just different situations! 

My philosphy is jaded, but I firmly say family suck. Never had a good memory of my family and now being dicked over by my FI’s family I have concluded that I am not meant to be in any family other then the one I create. 

I am sorry you’re dealing with this and wish you all the best. 

Keep strong, stick to your guns, and protect yourself and your mother. 

Post # 7
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1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

 

@JoJoDahling:  


@FutureMrsJohnston:    Exactly! I feel the same.  Why should I spend a dime on these people and be a part of my happiness when they clearly don’t care  about us. I am so not inviting them. I know my mom would be hurt, even though they hurt her, but it’s my money and my day. 

 

Post # 8
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872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@echolove:  Very true! That is how I look at it when it comes to my wedding. I am not wasting one cent on people who do not deserve it. 

My mom is hurt that I am not inviting her family too, but I told her it was for the best and she needs to trust me and accept my choices for this one day.

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