- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Short background, I am not close to my family at all. They have always excluded my mom from everything, which they exclude us as well. it turned for the worse when my aunt’s house was raided by the police because of distributing meth, selling close to a school and having loaded guns. Her, her husband and her 18 yr old son got arrested. My aunt came to live with my mom and us because no one wanted to take her in. My aunt seen how we’ll we took care of my mom, even if she made stupid decisions and got into trouble, we never turned our back on her.
My mom has always been independent and never needed her families help. But yet they treat her like the black sheep of the family. So my aunt got jealous of our relationship with my mom because her kids turned their backs on her and were talking so much crap to her. And we never disrespect my mom. My aunt started telling us lies about my mom and tried to turn us against her. Which made me stop talking to my mom and leave for a week. My aunt admitted that she lied about everything because she was jealous. My mom kicked her out and my aunt started spreading rumors about mom to the family. I could care less to ever talk to them again. Which I haven’t in years already. Oh and my aunt was stealing from our house.
Today is Mother’s Day in our cultural. My mom has not talked to my grandma since my uncle’s funeral in feb. which youll think that would bring my grandma closer to my mom since she just loss a child and my mom loss her brother, nope! My mom found out that they are having a catered dinner at my grandma’s house where everyone pitched in $20. My aunt her kids, uncle, cousins, Nina, everyone is there and didn’t invite my mom or us. My mom is so hurt and keeps calling me to tell me. She called my grandma to say happy mother’s day but she didn’t answer and didnt even call her back. And still no invite to my mom, knowing that she now knows about the dinner. And my mom still wants me to invite them to my wedding. But no! They are not invited to my wedding. Sorry… Not sorry!
vent over. Thanks! Lol