- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2016
Hi there, i’m going to try to explain this situation as best as possible.
Basically, my Fiance has always been way close to his family, closer than my family is, and his family lives very close to where all of our friends live. My family, I am less close with, we do less things as a family than my FI’s family and they live 30 minutes away. Anyway, recently its really starting to bug me that we are able to spend so much time with his family (we do 2-4 times a week with his family), and he hasn’t came out to where my family lives in about 3 weeks. I always come the 30 minutes to him, as he owns his own house and I live with my family until we get married. But anyway, I just feel like wheneve the opportunity does come up for him to visit my family, its like its not a problem, unless there is something else going on. He does regular bar night every wednesday in our town, and would never really bail on his friends on the wednesday to spend time with my family. And i’m not even asking him to cancel with his friends always, i’m just feeling like hangingout with my family is lower on his totem pole of priorities than doing a whole lot of other things. Am i being fair with feeling this way, or am I being overly sensitive?