(Closed) Family uninterested in wedding and planning

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
41 posts

I am sorry that you are not getting the support you need, and i can imagine it would feel terrible to have no one to turn to. However it does sound like you may be taking on a bit too much. When you eloped with your partner last year, did your family take the news well? They might have felt left out. Also, maybe they do not realize how much of a celebration you want? If my friends eloped last year and held a party when they came back, I would assume it was a dinner, rather than a full on reception and ceremony, unless told otherwise.

If this is stressing you out and affecting your health, maybe you can consider scaling down the size of the party. You say that you dont want your partner to regret marrying you as he wants a wedding of his own, but as you also say he’s not really interested, I wouldnt worry about it. I thnk if a man really wants something he’ll get on board!

Have ALL your girlfriends done something to offend you that badly? Obviously I dont know you or your situation, but perhaps there might be a behavior of yours that needs reflection? 

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