(Closed) Family vent :/ (sorry, long)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
206 posts
Helper bee

It sounds like your father and brother are shifting blame and using you (through guilt) to try to control your mother. Perhaps your father could not get the information out of your mother about her doctor’s appointment so he asked you in a violation of her privacy. They have a bad relationship, sleep separately because of animosity, why would she feel safe to tell him anything?

An additional layer seems to be that your father has gifted you an apartment you cannot leave due to lack of funds, and you are working for him, so you are beholden to him for nearly everything financial. This should not be used against you. Do not apologize for your actions. Your father may have been acting as he always has, but just because someone is always manipulative doesn’t make their actions right.

If I have misunderstood the situation, I’m sorry. Good luck with getting through these troubles.


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