- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014 - Mauritius
This may seem strange to some, I don’t really know (hence the post) but I have always been curious about fantasies and wat is normal/healthy and what is not. I consider myself to fantisize a lot and about all different things with all different people (if it isn’t my partner it’s usually just a random man I don’t know). I do have a slightly higher sex drive than FI and we don’t really talk about each others fantasies, we talk about what we like during sex etc but I sort of see them as private or what I use during masturbation etc. Some of the things I fantasize about I often think are a little strange and so wouldn’t want to share them with FI!
The thing I find even more strange, is that I either don’t think I would or know I don’t like a lot of what I fantisize about in real life (things like anal (sorry if thats TMI!)) – I have fantisies about it and have tried it and did NOT like it at all! However I still fantisise about it now.
I don’t know if it’s normal, if it’s because of a high sex drive, if it’s because me and FI aren’t at it as much as I’d like because of his lower sex drive or if there is something wrong with me! What about you ladies? Any brave enough to share?