(Closed) Fantasy/Dream Man…Just for Fun

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Here’s my dream man hihi

 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

@Scottish_lassie:  I can honestly say Fiance is truly my “total package”.  Handsome, dark hair, light eyes, tall, lean, athletic, insanely smart, future doctor.  He CAN talk about his feelings (but doesn’t always need or want to), is a good listener, and has an absolutely killer sense of humor.

However, he does have a super irritating tendency to play “devils advocate” about nearly everything we debate.  It’s pretty annoying sometimes.  I’ll say something about…well, anything…and he’ll say “well, what about ____” or “not always, ____________”.  Just always a rebuttal.  He also is pretty stubborn and usually wants to be right.  Granted, he is very VERY smart and informed about a lot and (as much as I hate to admit it) is right a lot, but he can be kind of haughty about it.  I LOVE to be right too…and often dispute him just bc I hate that he knows so much about so much, but I do pull things out of my ass.  Then he kind of “puts me in my place” about how I’m wrong and, even though what he’s saying is true, it’s just so freaking irritating. 

So, I could definitely go with less stubborn, less “always right”.  But atleast he’s not a bullshitter who just THINKS they are right because they’re so egotistical.  It could be worse.  But damn, is it annoying sometimes!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

@couawilou:  Um, yes.  Ooooh yes.  You and me both, girl!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

He’d be taller. I feel bad for saying that because it’s not his fault!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Reminds me of the Ryan Gosling meme…
 

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Fiance is my fantasy / dream man come to life.  Every day I’m amazed at how perfect he is; not perfect as in “a perfect person,” but perfect in that he is perfect for me.  We are so much alike that I joke that he is “Me with a penis.”

ETA:  I forgot to answer the original question to the post, lol.  He is tall, muscular, athletic, gorgeous face and hair, beautiful ocean-colored eyes.  Very smart – an engineer.  Deep voice, sweet smile, kind and loving heart, very affectionate, high sex drive, adventurous, playful, great sense of humor.  He’s a peaceful and optimistic soul.  He tells me his feelings and the other night during a “discussion” (mild argument, lol) he said, “Ok.  What is the REAL issue here?”  So I blurted it out and he gave me a big hug and said, “I’m so glad you told me.  I would feel the same way.”  And it made me fall in love all over again because he really “gets” me.  All the time.  I feel very lucky, but he says he’s the lucky one.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

when I was 19 i wrote this blog:

he will be interested in the arts and more than willing to go to art galleries, accoustic nights, poetry readings in dimly lit cafe bars. he’ll take me to the opera and to watch plays that he’s seen advertised and thinks i’ll like. he’ll encourage me in whatever i want to do.

he’ll take me to nice restaurants. we’ll experiment with food we’ve never had before. we’ll sit in wine bars, or coffee shops and have long conversations about the things we’re passionate about. he’ll bring me flowers.

but we’ll also go and do silly things, like flying kites in the park, or seeing who can eat the most ice-cream. and when it comes to the tv we can either watch an independant movie, or giggle along to reeves and mortimer. he won’t mind that i’m obsessed with charmed and he’ll let my dvd collection of all the series stand proudly in the dvd cabinet. he’ll recognise when i’m quoting friends and call me silly, even though he wishes he could do the same because i’d be impressed.

he’ll bring me breakfast in bed at weekends and we’ll spend nights cooking meals together. he’ll let me have an aga. he’ll put his foot down when i say i want our bedroom to be pink.

 

2 years later I met him. he is everything i described in my post and i couldn’t believe my luck that he was the guy I was looking for.

he laughs at my friends jokes. we’re going to Disney on our honeymoon. we talk about science and philosophy and we go out for a coffee every Sunday morning. he takes care of me when I’m sick – and he wants to provide for me and make me happy. funny how accurate dreams can turn out to be.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@MrsDrRose612:  Ha! my SO totally likes to play the devil’s advocate too! I completely agree, SUPER annoying, BUT i’m getting used to it. I used to always take any debate too personally (i sometimes still do), and that is not a good combination. I’ve learned now, though, that it’s just who he is. He knows a lot too and always wants to question everything, just for “the sake of argument.” It’s not a big issue or anything though.

 

My SO is an almost perfect man too. He is caring, hillarious, very smart, the friendliest person I know, laid back, and loving. The only thing I would add is to make him more ROMANTIC… He loves me but I want him to give me flowers just because and write me little notes often. LOL. I’m a hopeless romantic for the little things. Also, our arguing styles our different. He plays devil’s advocate in arguments sometimes too and I HATE it, but we are getting better at communicating, so it’s okay. I love my almost perfect man. πŸ™‚  OOOH but i’d make him more cuddly too!

Post # 13
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Helper bee

@redheadem:  oh mine would be taller, too. he’s a tiny tiny man. 5ft4 (and 1/4 – that 1/4 is very important to me as i’m 5ft4)

i haven’t worn heels in 4 years………

maybe i should have put that in my blog post. ah well, you can’t have it all! ha

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Scottish_lassie:  Seriously I think Fiance is my dream man. He has everything I have been looking for in a man. He makes me laugh, he’s a great listener, he’s there for me when I need someone, he’s caring, responsible, and many more πŸ˜€

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Scottish_lassie:  Haha I love the “cuddly sleeper who doesn’t fart as much” part! Awesome!

To answer the post… hmm…

got it!

Ideal man: My boyfriend + a proposal πŸ˜‰ just kidding… kind of!

and my dream man LOVES grocery shopping and taking his time in the isles… 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@juneebee:  the “Devil’s Advocate” is me. He actually complained a few times about that.. 
I’m always trying to look at the other side.. oups! 

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