(Closed) Farting and other gross stuff

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think some mystery should be left in the relationship.  I really don’t do that kind of stuff around my husband unless I can’t help it but never pooping with him nearby!

Post # 4
5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

R doesn’t care; I like to maintain my “feminine mystique” – quite a feat when you live together! We’re not shy about things like, “I have to pee” or whatever, but I do my best to be as un-disgusting as possible when he’s around. He doesn’t bother trying to hide his farts anymore, though. I think it just depends on the couple.

Post # 5
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I think it’s a two-fold question.

Are my Fiance and I comfortable enough around each other to do this? Yes.

Would we broadcast it on facebook for the world to see? Ansolutely NOT.

Post # 6
1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

haha.. I have passed gas infront of him once.. outside..

I have ibs so sometimes it hurts waaay too much not 2. Other than that 1 time I NEVER have. It is hard to have a bowel movement with him nearby but i sometimes just turn the water on all the way (i know not good for the enviornment!)

he however has NOOO shame.. and for reason im okay with that.

Post # 7
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

There was a post about this a few mo ago with an interesting poll… but I can’t remember where it is now πŸ™‚ I’m in the “no” category though. Sure, accidents happen and things slip and its not a huge deal… but we both definitely make every effort to avoid those situations! I do think there is something to be said for keeping some mystery alive. I think it really matters how people were raised though. Some families are totally cool with that stuff and its normal which makes it more normal for those people in relationships. My family was NOT like that at all (if my brother said something like “i’m going to the bathroom and its going ot be a while” my mom would reply “that is way too much information!” lol). So i’m not cool with it. πŸ™‚

Post # 8
3526 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

The #2 def NO.

But the farting and burping. Why not? It’s stinky and all but if you live together how do you keep that stuff in?? A lifetime of holding in fart and burps will be very painful!

Just because we’re girls doesn’t mean we don’t fart and burp too!

Post # 9
314 posts
Helper bee

We have been together since I was 16 and he was 17, we are totally comfortable in front of each other! In the end, its only natural! πŸ™‚

Post # 10
555 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My Fiance and I are the same way you are!  It always amazes me when people can fart and burp in front of one another.  Accidents happen, but neither of us intentionally do it.  YUCK!!  We decided the keys to a happy marriage are separate bathrooms, a TiVo and a king sized bed! 

Post # 11
2027 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

We used to be like this, but about 1 year into our relationship, my husband and I got the flu REALLY bad, and so we got over caring pretty quick. We could care less about it now, and although we don’t go #2 with each other in view, it’s not like we’re hiding it or anything. I think personally I would hate to feel uncomfortable in any situation around my husband, and I’m sure once I get pregnant, a whole mess of nasty uncontrollable-ness will take place.

Post # 12
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

they critique the smells? LOL – too extreme for me!

Post # 13
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I have IBS so sometimes… at night in bed… yeah, I might slip.  And he might in the car on a long drive.  But in NO WAY are we playing “guess the smell”!  That’s just gross. I do think gas happends but there is no reason to be crude about it.

Post # 15
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I’m with you guys on the #2 in front of him thing….just can’t do it.  But I guess I don’t understand what you’re supposed to do if you have to burp or fart…run out of the room?  I mean, I try to keep it quiet, but sometimes you just can’t, and I don’t know how to hold it in!  I’m confused.  Your body does things…what’s the big deal?

Post # 16
142 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ummm, I wouldn’t announce that we are comfy farting around each other and would definitely NOT critique smells on FB. 

We have no problem farting, burping around each other. We treat it as a joke when it happens- we say, “there she blows,” or “I felt the vibes on that one.” You know, funny stuff… I seriously think worldwide, in every cultural group, farting is funny. 

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