Post # 1
Hello ladies 🙂 OK so FI’s Best friend and his gf are super cute as a couple and what not and have been together for about two years and the other day they decided to share to the world through FB that they are so comfy with each other that they fart in front of each other and then go on to critique the smell while I thought it was hilarious I also thought it was hella gross! Ive been with my man for over 5 years and to this day I dont fart or burp in front of him unless its an accident lmao. He does’nt do it in front of me either…hell I cant even go number two with him being around the bathroom lol! I mean we are really comfortable with each other and really silly and do things with each other that we wouldnt do in front of other people but I just want to keep the sexiness in the relationship, I want to keep that image he has of me of the cute girly girl.
I just want to know if you guys are o.k with the farting and the burping and the pooping haha.
Post # 3
I think some mystery should be left in the relationship. I really don’t do that kind of stuff around my husband unless I can’t help it but never pooping with him nearby!
Post # 4
R doesn’t care; I like to maintain my “feminine mystique” – quite a feat when you live together! We’re not shy about things like, “I have to pee” or whatever, but I do my best to be as un-disgusting as possible when he’s around. He doesn’t bother trying to hide his farts anymore, though. I think it just depends on the couple.
Post # 5
I think it’s a two-fold question.
Are my Fiance and I comfortable enough around each other to do this? Yes.
Would we broadcast it on facebook for the world to see? Ansolutely NOT.
Post # 6
haha.. I have passed gas infront of him once.. outside..
I have ibs so sometimes it hurts waaay too much not 2. Other than that 1 time I NEVER have. It is hard to have a bowel movement with him nearby but i sometimes just turn the water on all the way (i know not good for the enviornment!)
he however has NOOO shame.. and for reason im okay with that.
Post # 7
There was a post about this a few mo ago with an interesting poll… but I can’t remember where it is now 🙂 I’m in the “no” category though. Sure, accidents happen and things slip and its not a huge deal… but we both definitely make every effort to avoid those situations! I do think there is something to be said for keeping some mystery alive. I think it really matters how people were raised though. Some families are totally cool with that stuff and its normal which makes it more normal for those people in relationships. My family was NOT like that at all (if my brother said something like “i’m going to the bathroom and its going ot be a while” my mom would reply “that is way too much information!” lol). So i’m not cool with it. 🙂
Post # 8
The #2 def NO.
But the farting and burping. Why not? It’s stinky and all but if you live together how do you keep that stuff in?? A lifetime of holding in fart and burps will be very painful!
Just because we’re girls doesn’t mean we don’t fart and burp too!
Post # 9
We have been together since I was 16 and he was 17, we are totally comfortable in front of each other! In the end, its only natural! 🙂
Post # 10
My Fiance and I are the same way you are! It always amazes me when people can fart and burp in front of one another. Accidents happen, but neither of us intentionally do it. YUCK!! We decided the keys to a happy marriage are separate bathrooms, a TiVo and a king sized bed!
Post # 11
We used to be like this, but about 1 year into our relationship, my husband and I got the flu REALLY bad, and so we got over caring pretty quick. We could care less about it now, and although we don’t go #2 with each other in view, it’s not like we’re hiding it or anything. I think personally I would hate to feel uncomfortable in any situation around my husband, and I’m sure once I get pregnant, a whole mess of nasty uncontrollable-ness will take place.
Post # 12
they critique the smells? LOL – too extreme for me!
Post # 13
I have IBS so sometimes… at night in bed… yeah, I might slip. And he might in the car on a long drive. But in NO WAY are we playing “guess the smell”! That’s just gross. I do think gas happends but there is no reason to be crude about it.
Post # 14
Hahaha yeah I know critiquing the smells is what got me to get grossed out lol…
Well im pretty open with that kinda stuff with my sibling we are really gross when we are together like burping contests, and comments like “I have to take the biggest dump ever!” I know gross but whatever lol
And I feel a lot better about not doing it in fron of my Fiance its not the I feel uncomfortable in front of him I just dont need him to see that side of me lol he already sees the crazy neurotic side no one else sees no need to add the stinky gross side too haha
Post # 15
I’m with you guys on the #2 in front of him thing….just can’t do it. But I guess I don’t understand what you’re supposed to do if you have to burp or fart…run out of the room? I mean, I try to keep it quiet, but sometimes you just can’t, and I don’t know how to hold it in! I’m confused. Your body does things…what’s the big deal?
Post # 16
Ummm, I wouldn’t announce that we are comfy farting around each other and would definitely NOT critique smells on FB.
We have no problem farting, burping around each other. We treat it as a joke when it happens- we say, “there she blows,” or “I felt the vibes on that one.” You know, funny stuff… I seriously think worldwide, in every cultural group, farting is funny.