(Closed) “fat women don’t get married”

posted 11 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 32
124 posts
Blushing bee

Oh she sucks. Pretty please tell everyone the name of this store. Don’t stop until the name of the shop becomes a pop-phrase for how to screw something up in the bridal community.

Post # 33
8375 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

what a dumb ho-bag

Post # 34
15 posts
  • Wedding: August 2010

I really can’t believe people… haven’t they heard of a FILTER?!? I could never insult and hurt someone like that.  This really ticks me off. No one should pass judgement on anyone, especially for their weight.  People just make me wonder sometimes.

Congrats and keep your head up 🙂

Post # 35
1646 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

oh my goodness, what a horrible woman! good for you for standing up to her

Post # 36
2836 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

That is horrible. I am sorry she hurt you. I would put her on BLAST. Write reviews, the newspaper, the news, everyone.

Post # 37
783 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Kudos to you for being so calm and classy! I would have screamed at her up and down. Since she is the manager I would call the owner/PR dept for the chain too and say how horrible, disrespectful, Other bad words I can’t say this woman was. Then I would continue to say you are spreading the word about your mistreatment and their business is going to suffer because of their idiotic staff!

Post # 38
361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

What a complete b*tch! Seriously, I would be out protesting in front of her shop and call the local papers JUST to give her some grief after that little comment. Every bride is beautiful on her wedding day at any size!

Post # 39
1656 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

i’m having a “i hate people” day and this just reinforces everything i already feel. what a bitch.

Post # 40
71 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so sorry this happened to you..

Something similar happened to me at a regular store I go to.. stupid cow said that i should lose weight and that it was my fault.. it was really quite horrible. Anyhow my sister wrote to the chain and basically said that this is unacceptable and that she will go to the media if it is not rectified. I got two phone call apologies, but not before I said what I had to say. I think you should NOT let this go. it is NOT acceptable.

Post # 41
1300 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

you handled it better thani would have. i would have probably slapped her silly.

Post # 42
6610 posts
Bee Keeper

I am APPALLED by this story! All women deserve to be the most beautiful bride on their wedding day, no matter shape, size, age, height, hair color, etc.

Pretty pretty please file a complaint at the BBB!

Post # 43
1751 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

That was a wonderful response. Ditto the PP’s that say put her on blast. I’m confident that a paper would publish that, too. It’s wedding season. Also, I think that sceeder’s suggestion is a GREAT one.

Post # 44
1557 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I cannot believe someone would say something so cruel & hurtful! I’m sorry someone would treat you with such disrespect. I have read dress shopping horror stories, but this is by far the most innappropriate, unprofessional, shocking thing I have heard yet.

Good for you for standing up for yourself though! No one deserves to be treated like that, and no one should ever have to take it, I’m really glad you didn’t. I know I would have broke down in tears had a stranger been so blatantly condescending & rude as that.


Post # 45
693 posts
Busy bee

WHAT???? you have to be kidding…

The nerve.. OMG i would post bad reviews everywhere.. I hope she goes out of buisness

Post # 46
278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Wow, what a bitch. I’m so sorry this happened to you but so glad you said something to her (and something so classy, too – I probably would have just sputtered and cussed). I just don’t understand how anyone could be so gratuitously rude.

Also, I have never understood why any person in customer service – especially anyone selling high-end type stuff – would be so colossally STUPID as to treat anyone this way. Even if you’re 100% sure this person is not a potential customer, everyone has friends, family, co-workers and you can bet your a** they’re going to tell people! Negative word of mouth, grasp the concept!

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