- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
My fiancee and I want my dad to be the one to marry us but we’re not quite sure how to ask or if it’s even a good idea to ask him. We think it would be really sweet and I’ve wanted him to do it for my wedding since he got ordained but when he did my step sisters biological dads third wedding(complicated to explain), he said he would never do it again. He thinks it’s too much pressure.
A week or so ago my fiancee and I were talking about the wedding with him and my step mom (who knows we want him to perform it) and my step mom says “maybe your dad could do the wedding…” and he just kinda laughed. I didn’t wanna let on how upsetting that was for me so I just kinda laughed it off but I cried about it later.
So basically we want to formally ask him to perform our wedding but we don’t know how to bring it up again.
Anyone have any ideas of how to ask? Or even think if it’s a good idea or not?