(Closed) Father daughter issues

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

1. It’s your wedding and he needs to respect that.  Bearing in mind your wedding is quite soon I would drop this bombshell asap.  But ultimately I’m sure once he thinks about it he will realise that your stepfather has been a massive part in developing you into the woman you are today.  And whether he likes it or not, you have a stong relationship with him.  I’d stick to your plan but get this in the open asap if it’s going to be a bumpy ride while your dad deals with it.


2. I don’t think it matters who stands on what side.  In my wedding I’m not having a Maid/Matron of Honor because I can’t choose between my 4 best friends so my brother is my witness and will be standing with me instead of my BM’s.  If they are close and your brother is a groomsman then I don’t think it matters.  It’s your wedding, have it your way.  You won’t please everyone and some of the older guests might have a gripe about it when they find out but it’s your day, your way.

The best advice I can give is you can only please some of the people some of the time.  but your wedding day is memories for the rest of your life.

Good luck

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