- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
Hey Bees out there,
I am looking for advices and tips since I am blaine by my anger and my Spanish heritage.
I am from Colombia but I moved to Australia back in 2007. The last time I went home (4.5 years ago) I went with my boyfriend who I introduced to all my family as such.
I stayed with my parents while we were visiting and one night, Dad and I argued about me coming back to my Australia with my boyfriend. Things went ugly that night and he ended up kicking my out of his house (he turned violent and I had to run away).
I had to return to collect my stuff with the police because of my security and safety. Since that day, I don’t speak to my father and it was very hurtful to leave the house and the country in those circumstances.
I got engaged last year and I have been very close to my mom, so I was more exited about telling her than anybody else in the whole world.
I sent the invitations for the wedding about 5 months and my mom had begged me to call him to let him know I was getting married. So I did called him and it’s the one thing I regret to have done. He was rude, his words were hurtful and one more time I was heartbroken.
I am getting married in December and within a month away of my wedding my mom had begged me again to approach him so instead of calling him I wrote a letter to him and I made sure he read it, so he did.
Now he is offended and refused to come to my wedding because my soon to be husband did not ask his permission to get married.
I just simply refuse to do one more thing to conciliate this situation. I had to stop mom to bringing the subject and I just simply feel I don’t care whether he comes or not.
I have been living out his house since I was 20 and I am 28.