father in law is a bully!

posted 2 months ago in Family
Post # 2
Member
1200 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

sgilbert04 :  Your husband needs to confront them about this. And tell them that if they don’t follow you and your DH’s rules that they can’t watch the kid anymore. I’d be hella pissed. No one wants to piss off mama bear.

 

Post # 3
Member
673 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

I don’t understand how this constitutes bullying. He seems rude about the religion stuff and irresponsible about your daughter. Why don’t you stop taking your daughter over to their house?

Post # 4
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9690 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

sgilbert04 :  yeah no. No one drinks and drives with my kid (I don’t have one, just saying if I did) in the car.

there are way too many issues here to unpack, but the bottom line is they are not good choices to watch your kid. No more unsupervised visits.

 

Post # 5
Member
7931 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

No more alone time with the grandparents. See them on the holidays and call it a day.

And you knew they had both been drinking and still drove your child back to their house? What?

Post # 6
Member
2335 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

I think you need to put your foot down. You should have taken your daughter instead of letting them drive with her. Stick to your guns. I would’ve told him I saw him run over to the neighbors house and asked dd right in front of him if grandpa was in their house. The livelihood of your child is nothing to play around with. nope.

Post # 7
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1708 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I’m having trouble seeing the bullying part.

But the drinking? My daughter would not be alone with them after that. That’s not being a bully though, that’s putting your daughter in danger.

If it wasn’t for that, I would think he was just rough around the edges, not necessarily a bully.

When i got to the part about the wine and what not, I completely agreed with your daughter not being alone with them.

Post # 8
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6922 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

I’m so confused about how your kid ended up in thier car after they had been drinking. You were there. You could have taken her with you and yet you let them take her home? For fucks sake, why?! 

I would never leave my child with them ever again. There are no second chances when it comes to things as big as drinking and driving and unsupervised time with strangers.

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