(Closed) Father In Law Called Me Fat. Devastated.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@MrsHRC:  Oh it was nasty alright, but as your husband pointed out, his dad is just an asshole.

Obviously this hurts, but at least you now know this guy just isn’t worth any time or thought. Hopefully you don’t have to see him often.

Congrats on your wedding by the way!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You are in no way, shape or form fat. You’re beautiful.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MrsHRC:  First, Congratulations on your wedding! Secondly, your Father-In-Law sounds like a jerk. Ignore him. Don’t give him the power to stress and upset you or your husband on this great moment in your life. Usually I just pity people who act like this bc there’s something going on with them that they can’t just be happy for other people. Congrats again!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Say what?! you are totally not fat! I think you both look great!

Ignore him. He’s obviously a fool.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

my feelings would be very hurt as well. especially considering that a size 8 is really pretty small for someone who is 5’7.

i think i would playfully make fun of him back! for example, if he said, “youre still fat” or whatever i’d say, well at least i’m not: bald, ugly, smell bad, etc.

i know this may be difficult to do, but tell your SO that it hurts your feelings and ask him to tell his dad to not say hurtful shit anymore.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

he’s crazy!! you are beautiful! 

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

wow what a jerk. A barrier of the US to Australia (I’m guessing that’s where they are?) doesn’t sound like enough!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That was totally uncalled for on his part. Just remember you’re NOT FAT. And I wouldn’t let him know that his stupid comment bugged me, he’d probably be glad he got to you. I would honestly just think of something just as rude to say back, or get your husband to talk to him, or just cut off communication for the time being.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Your father in law is an ass.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Who cares what other peopel think! The only thing that matters is how you feel about YOURSELF! I think you look GREAT! I’m 5’5″ and I WISH I was a size 6-8! I’m about a 10.. really hip-py :/ lol But it is what it is.. Im working on it lol

Some people are just negative! Screw him.. Just worry about your husband and your beautiful life together! Congrats! 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

You are not fat at all.  How rude!!!  I would be livid.

Post # 14
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Helper bee

What a jerk! You are beautiful and far from being fat!! Don’t let his nasty attitude affect you. 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

You’re lovely and he’s an asshole.

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