(Closed) Father In-Law From My Previous Marriage Woes

posted 8 years ago in Money
  • poll: Should I ask my ex-Father-in-Law to help pay for our wedding?

    Don't do that! How rude! Find another way (comment with an idea?)

    He sounds like he'd be happy to help. Just ask him to help pay.

    It's sort of awkward to ask him to pay for it. A loan would be better.

    Don't even bother getting married.

  • Post # 62
    176 posts
    Blushing bee

    I know this is so very rude… But I feel like I can voice my opinon… And I hope to be completely wrong, but… I’m just not buying it.

    Your previous post bragged about having a big 18k wedding… Yet your ex fil pays for your flights out to see him… Why? And while I can understand that maybe as a one time scenerio, you worded it as if it were the case each time. Also, he bought you a car for CA, AND gave you his old one… Did you not have one? But still you were planning a wedding for 18k that was and I quote (from your previous post) “faux”. Yet since recieving a unanimous “Do not ask your ex fil for 4k” from the bees, suddenly you scaled back and managed a $1,500 weddding… Right.

    More like you just saving face, to me.

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