(Closed) Father In-Law From My Previous Marriage Woes

posted 6 years ago in Money
  • poll: Should I ask my ex-Father-in-Law to help pay for our wedding?
    Don't do that! How rude! Find another way (comment with an idea?) : (146 votes)
    63 %
    He sounds like he'd be happy to help. Just ask him to help pay. : (8 votes)
    3 %
    It's sort of awkward to ask him to pay for it. A loan would be better. : (67 votes)
    29 %
    Don't even bother getting married. : (11 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 62
    176 posts
    Blushing bee

    I know this is so very rude… But I feel like I can voice my opinon… And I hope to be completely wrong, but… I’m just not buying it.

    Your previous post bragged about having a big 18k wedding… Yet your ex fil pays for your flights out to see him… Why? And while I can understand that maybe as a one time scenerio, you worded it as if it were the case each time. Also, he bought you a car for CA, AND gave you his old one… Did you not have one? But still you were planning a wedding for 18k that was and I quote (from your previous post) “faux”. Yet since recieving a unanimous “Do not ask your ex fil for 4k” from the bees, suddenly you scaled back and managed a $1,500 weddding… Right.

    More like you just saving face, to me.

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