(Closed) Father in Law Troubles

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
894 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Happybee555:  as someone who Hates her in laws,,,hmhmh my mother in law I want tos tart by saying there is no explaination needed. You dont like him that is that.

now….he is your husbands father. And now you are a Mommy…how would you feel of you son did mot let you come and see your grand child because his wife dislikes you? His dad is and will always be his dad. i suggest you suck it up for the sake of the man you Love. Dont let him get to you and remember it is only once a year. 

Or else the only person getting hurt will be your husband. Keep yourlsef busy and

just breathe

Post # 4
9567 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

It is your new family that is the priority now, as it should be. However I agree with your DH that  it would be good for your FIL to be able to spend time with his grandchild. 

Post # 5
2876 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i can understand your husband wanting your FIL to visit to see his new grandchild. would it be possible to find a compromise, for example he stays in a hotel but can visit during the day

you and his father are both your husbands family, i’d honestly just stop making an effort BUT not try and prevent him coming/prevent DH havign a relationship with him

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