(Closed) Father inviting people not on the guest list

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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2076 posts
Buzzing bee

I suggest you call up these extras, explain that your Father was mistaken, that they cannot come to the wedding, and you apologize for the confusion.

You also need to have a come to Jesus talk with your Father.  Tell him that anyone that calls him to RSVP, to direct them to you, and to not just say yes when someone asks if they can bring so and so.  That you have a budget, a determined guest list, and a venue maximum that needs to be considedred so any additional invites is not possible.

Post # 3
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41 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I had this issue with my mom wanting to invite everyone and their brother, cousin, sister, etc. You need to sit down with your dad and tell him that it is not okay to invite people who are not on your guest list. You also need to tell him that if someone calls him to RSVP that he needs to give them your phone number and have them call you. I know you don’t want to hurt your dads feelings, but you have to be stern and stand your ground. This is your day!

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