Post # 1
My mom just asked me what my dad should wear to the wedding, and I don’t know! Our current plan is for the groom to be in a charcoal gray suit with a silver tie, and his groomsmen (which includes his father as best man) in the same suits but with a black tie.
I assume to some extent he’ll probably want to coordinate with my mom’s outfit? My mom has chosen a silver and black dress. If my dad chooses a charcoal suit and black tie, he’ll match the groomsmen which i don’t know if that’s appropriate. If he chooses a charcoal suit and silver tie, he’ll match the groom which we definitely don’t want. Should he maybe wear a black suit, or would that then make him too formal compared to the charcoal suits of the groomsmen? What do you all suggest? I should add that my Fiance hates vests so has opted for a two-piece suit, so simply choosing a different color vest is not an option.
Post # 2
My dad wore a tux, like the groom and groomsmen.
Post # 3
My dad and Father-In-Law wore the same tux as my groomsmen and husband. They had different ties to set them apart. My husband was the only one who wore a vest.
Post # 4
- Wedding: May 2017 - The Summit Country Day School Chapel/The Hilton Netherland Plaza Hall of Mirrors
Darling Husband wore a charcoal tux, groomsmen in a lighter grey and the fathers wore black tuxes.
Post # 5
My dad wore a black suit just like the groom and gm. But he had a different tie.
I think in your case that he could wear a charcoal suit with black tie or maybe another color from your scheme if that’s feasible. What are the bridesmaids wearing? I also think it would be perfectly ok for him to wear a black suit. There’s probably some rule that black is more formal, but I really don’t think of it that way. I consider a black suit to be more common since more men have one as a staple. Plus, he’ll match your mom! Personally, I’d probably go black suit (but then I may be biased since that’s what we used. Lol)
Post # 6
SydneyRose : Bridesmaids are going to be in dark plum dresses. I had toyed with the idea of putting the groomsmen in matching plum ties before deciding black would be nicer.
Post # 7
My dad wore the same as the groomsmen but they had different bouts. Honestly, we don’t even have pictures of him next to the groomsmen so it wasn’t weird.
Post # 8
My dad is wearing the same as the groomsmen, it was FI’s idea and I really appreciated him including my dad in that way.
Post # 9
All of the men in our wedding party, including my Darling Husband, my dad, and my Father-In-Law, as well as all the groomsmen and our three year old ring bearer wore identical formalwear (black tails and white vest and tie). I think it would be fine for your dad to match your Father-In-Law and the groomsmen.
Post # 10
My dad will match the groomsmen though still deciding on colour.
Post # 11
My dad wore a black suit that he already owned (he wore it when he married my step mum actually) with a white shirt and a blue tie to coordinate with my step mum’s dress. Darling Husband and his groomsmen wore charcoal grey trousers, a charcoal grey vest, a white shirt and lavender ties (bow tie for Darling Husband, standard ties for the groomsmen). I don’t think my dad looked any more formally dressed than Darling Husband and the groomsmen.
Post # 12
sept2017 : I would tell him to wear whatever he wants. Black or grey suit with a black tie seems pretty standard and would be perfectly acceptable. It’s fine if he matches the groomsmen and also fine if he’s in black while they’re in charcoal. Maybe he could do a black suit with charcoal tie? That would coordinate well with your mom and everyone else. Seriously though, it’s not going to matter — I’d let him wear whatever he’s comfortable in.
Post # 13
My dad chose to wear a black suit with a tie. I got him a white buttonhole flower to signify he’s with me haha 🙂 all the other men wore suit and ties but I formalised my groom by having him be the only one with a waist coat and white bow tie with coordinating pocket square. I feel like this really set him apart on the day and he loved his outfit.
My husband’s look:
Dad and I :
Post # 14
I think a black tux would be completely ok!