- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
So my parents finally divorced about 7 years ago and I had a huge blow up with my dad with regards on how he treated my mom prior and post divorce. ( won’t get into the long story blah blah blah) I reached out to him a couple of months ago and invited him to the wedding. Originally, my uncle (mom’s brother), who has been more of a father figure than my dad, was going to walk me down aisle. When I met up with my dad, he said that he would love to come to the wedding and kinda hitted that he’d like to walk me down. Ok, fine.
Yesterday, I asked a friend to translate in chinese (he doesn’t speak any english and I don’t know how to say what I wanted to say in chinese) if he’d be comfortable participating in father/daughter dance. I don’t think he’s ever danced his whole life (pretty old school chinese). He called and said he’d love to. NOW, my dilemma is….I can’t seem to find a song that fits us because 1) he’s not my hero 2) never been a father to me my whole life 3) never gave a crap about my sibilngs and I 4) told me that if it weren’t for my mom, he’d have given us nothing. I need a song that doesn’t symbolizes all that hahha. Suggestions?