(Closed) Father/Step-father/Mother Drama

posted 12 years ago in Family
Post # 18
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196 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

That is a tough situation to be in. I come from divorced parents as well, and it stinks to be in the middle. But I wouldn’t let your mother make you cahnge your plans to have your dad walk you down the aisle. I think that a second father daughter dance with your step dad is awesome, and puts it out there that they are both so important to you. Maybe get your step father alone and explain your feelings to him. It sounds like your mother is the one with the problem, not him, and explaining it to him will hopefully make you feel better and he might be able to calm your mom down some.

thankfully it’s my Dad who remarried to a wonderful woman, so I don’t have to worry about choosing who to walk me down the aisle. I can imagine hos difficult it is, because my step mom has been more of a mother to me in the last couple of years than I really remember my mom ever being.

Good luck!

Post # 19
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101 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You know, it sounds like you already know what you want (your biological father walking you do the isle) and you know what it’s going to cost you (your mother’s wrath).

I applaud you for making the right decision for you even though you know that the road getting there is going to be bumpy.

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