(Closed) Favor, No Favor, Donation?

posted 9 years ago in Favors
Post # 3
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426 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think the slide show is a nice “father daughter dance” tribute.  I don’t mind when I don’t receive a favor at a wedding, especially if the money used for favors goes to a great cause.  If you insist on doing a favor at all, a bag of candy is your best bet.  no one can refuse food!

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I really like the idea of a business sized card that says “In lieu of a traditional favor, the newyweds have chosen to donate to the ___ Cancer Society in honour of Mr. Bride’s Father”

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

No worries on a favor if you do the donation… just make sure you make a note on either the seating card (escort card) or at each place that lets your guest know that you did. I think the slide slow is nice sentiment but my only concern is the awkwardness and emotions it may trigger to other family and friends. My family would be a blubbering mess and I’m sure it would be hard to get back into “party” vibe from it… just a thought though

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Why don’t you use fruit as favors? It’s inexpensive (especially if you get it locally and in bulk), it’s healthy and delicious, and you can tie a note to the stem letting everyone know about the donation.

Post # 7
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120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

So sorry about your loss. 🙁 I’ve seen some really great donations- How about a  simple card with your dad’s picture on it? Or if you are going to do candy, do your Dad’s favorite candy? Or wear something of your dad’s that day or stitch his initials in your dress-seen that before? My mom just went to a wedding earlier this year that had the Dad’s picture where he was conveniently holding up a drink on a napkin and it said something like Cheers, Dad! Wish you could be here. The big question is how much are you ready to handle? It is an already emotional day so make sure to do stuff you’re 100% comfortable with. Good luck!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

I think of it this way: As a guest, would you rather (1) get a $2 trinket or some candy, or (2) all give up your favor to collectively donate $200 to a cancer society?

I believe some people would pick option 1. But I personally don’t care about favors. I’d rather have it go to a worthy cause, especially one near and dear to the bride. You could do a small business card on each place setting, or… here’s a good idea… find a double frame (one hinged between the frames so it can stand on its own). In one frame you can put a picture of you and your dad. In the other frame write the note about how a donation is being made in the name of the guests to the cancer society. You can put one on each table, or just put one on the escort card table.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I like the donation over favor idea as well.  As for the slide show, would you get teary and sad looking at those pictures?  If that doesn’t bother you or your family, then fine.  Otherwise maybe having an area where you could display some photos along with the statement you made a donation to the cancer society???

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