FB drama making me lose my mind!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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9953 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I’d just block her if you don’t care about her.

Or i’d tell her she is being batshit insane and to get a grip before I block her.

Post # 3
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828 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Nope, this is some crazy shit. Good for you for recognizing that this is no good and you needed to stand up for yourself. Yes, block her. Block her number. Block her on facebook. She has just demonstrated exactly why she isn’t in the wedding. This is not normal, so don’t let her insane nonsense bring you down! Congratulations! This is a happy time!

Post # 4
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555 posts
Busy bee

Block her, she’s not any kind of friend if that’s what she’s doing. You can change your FB settings so you can review tags in the future 🙂

Post # 5
Member
751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Her reaction is not normal. If your friendship has been over for two years you need to move on and she shouldn’t have any expectations.

You don’t owe her anything it’s your wedding and you decide who gets to be by your side. 

Post # 6
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1292 posts
Bumble bee

Absolutely ignore her. Bad behavior shouldn’t be rewarded with attention, if at all possible. Do what you need to in order to insulate yourself from her unpleasantness. 

I’m so sorry that her totally inappropriate antics are bumming you out. You clearly made the right choice by not asking her to be in the party or come to your wedding. Yikes. 

Post # 7
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2714 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Block her – be the “black hole” (nothing comes out!).  She’s in the wrong in pretty much every way – particularly in that you “should have told her she wasn’t in the party” as telling someone they’re NOT included is super rude! Block her on FB and your phone and forget about it 🙂

Post # 8
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11615 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Just reading this I want to run so far away from her.  BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK and never let a crazy person stop you from doing what you want to do just because they’re needy. Her problem, all the way.

Post # 9
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3 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yeah, just block her lol. 

Post # 10
Member
616 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

Eek I had something like this happen to me, not wedding related. I and a few others blocked her. 

 

I was was so worried about it because it was public but after a bit some people stood up to her and some other people told me privately they thought she was nuts. 

 

Everyone reading it probably thinks she is a horrible person but they may not confront her because she is clearly crazy.

Post # 11
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165 posts
Blushing bee

iceteebride :  how old is this girl… who you ask to be in your wedding is literally.. YOUR BUSINESS.. you can ask 20 girls, or none at all.. the only time I give exceptions for people getting a little upset is when biological sisters get excluded from a large wedding party… and clearly, this girl is neither your sister, nor a close friend to you at present day. She not only just uninvited herself from your wedding, but also you life.. cut her loose and save yourself from unnecessary stress!

Post # 12
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12214 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

This person sounds unhinged , but her behavior illustrates the extreme end of what I’d consider to be a predictable reaction of hurt when someone who considers themselves a good friend has the evidence of a heartfelt invitation to be your Bridesmaid or Best Man rubbed right in her face.

It was IMO inconsiderate for your Bridesmaid or Best Man to post that photo and you essentially opened yourself up to hurting peoples’ feelings when you allowed it. 

That said, the reaction was over the top and immature. The upset friend should have kept her feelings to herself. You did not owe her any sort of heads up. Being a Bridesmaid or Best Man is not an entitlement for anyone and invitations are supposed to be inclusive, not exclusive. 

FB comments and tagged photos are seen and read by  people you know.  If you wouldn’t show or say it to someone’s face, don’t post it. 

Post # 13
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646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Tell her that you aren’t friends and she shouldn’t contact you anymore. Then block her.

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