(Closed) FBIL is very ill (verrrry long and sad)

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1713 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

I’m so sorry to hear that this is happening to your Future Brother-In-Law, especially at such a young age and with a child as well… So many losses and complications in that period of time must be hitting everyone very hard… It is very odd to think he is the same age as I am, and I honestly wish you all the best with whatever happens sweetie. I send my best wishes to your family in this pressing time. Do keep us updated.

Post # 4
2153 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sooo sorry. *huggs* Sounds aweful and I really feel terrible for your Future Brother-In-Law, i hope he isn’t in too much pain.

My cousin got married last September, sadly her Future Brother-In-Law was very sick with a type of brain cancer. They decided not to postpone the wedding any further, and by the grace of God her Future Brother-In-Law even was able to attend their wedding. I could tell from the photos how sick he really was, and how bitter sweet that day must have been for her FI’s family. Still, it was an amazing wedding.

And not to even suggest this might happen to your Future Brother-In-Law, because God forbid it should. But my cousin’s Future Brother-In-Law passed away 5 months ago. She just gave birth to her their first child, and she named that child after him. It was very hard on the family, his illness was long and difficult and his destiny uncertain.

Just know miracles do happen, and everything will be okay in the end. Just take care of your Fiance.

Post # 5
5117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@KatyLovesJoey: *hugs* There are no words to help you with the pain and conflict I’m sure you’re feeling right now. Your post truly made me cry. I hope that whatever happens, you and FI’s family can find peace and comfort. We can never find understanding for these horrible events, so try not to make yourself go around and around with it. I’d put the wedding planning on hold to just be present with Fiance and his family. Like you said, it’s so hard to plan a joyus event while contemplating such a sad situation. The Hive is always here to let you get out your feelings. I’ll be sending prayers your way, if you would like that. 

Post # 6
5103 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh my… This brought a tear to my eye.  Sorry for all your losses this year. Death and losing loved ones never gets easier.

I am so sorry for the pain your Future Brother-In-Law is going through. No one, especially so young should have to suffer like that. And I know it is the most helpless feeling in the world to not be able to help, to do…something, anything. And it’s so hard to hold onto hope when all the odds seem stacked against you.

I hope that if youf Future Brother-In-Law decides to go through with this procedure that it will be a step in the right direction… a step toward recovery. Be strong for him. Help him through this battle. Help him fight, that’s so important. Just try your damnedest to not give into despair and hopeless-ness.

Thinking of you and your family.

Post # 7
126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’m so sorry… life really does seem unfair at times.  

Try not to lose hope, though.  He may pull through this one yet and he needs a supportive and positive family.  There are quite a few people that live with one lung… perhaps with the removal of the infection he’ll start to improve.

Try to spend as much time with him as possible… and don’t despair.  None of us knows when our last moment will be.  Life is so fragile.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  I hope he pulls through.

Post # 8
1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Im sorry, this is just terrible 🙁

Post # 9
2947 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

::hugs:: I’m so sorry for what you are all going through. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Post # 10
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I am so sorry to hear this. This must be so hard. We never know why these things happen. I would sure like to know why too. I’m sending prayers and positive thoughts to you, him, and all of your family and friends.

I want to offer you encouragement. The surgery can go very well. My best friend’s dad got lung cancer years ago and had an entire lung and half of his other lung removed. The surgery was very succussful and he leads an active life.

Post # 11
4369 posts
Honey bee

I am so so sorry 🙁 

I hope there will be a miracle and your Future Brother-In-Law will be well again and be able to see his son grow up and also to attend his brother’s and yours wedding.

Post # 12
4474 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

This is so sad.  I’m so sorry to hear about the ordeal this young man, his family, and you and your family have all been through.  Best wishes to you all.  <3

Post # 14
324 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sorry too- my heart just aches for you and your in-laws. I don’t have too many words, just offering my consolation and prayers.

Also, thank you for sharing this story- it’s a powerful reminder that we can’t take for granted our loved ones or our health. It can all change in a moment.

God bless!

Post # 15
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so, so sorry to read this. Life is extremely unfair sometimes. I am thinking of you and your family!

Post # 16
3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

What a horrible disease 🙁 I really hope he finds some peace and comfort and gets to spend plenty of time with his baby boy. Thinking of all of you right now.

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