(Closed) FBIL’s getting married.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yikes!! It’s an awful situation, but I think your family may be quicker to rally around T because she’s pregnant and probably needs support.

I think it depends what kind of wedding they have? Maybe they just plan on eloping?

PS also, you never know what could happen. They haven’t been together long yet!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

T’s spot in the family has absolutely nothing to do with your relationship with your inlaws. I am sure they feel much differently about the two of you. It sounds like you have a great relationship with you inlaws with years of history. T has been around a couple of times and now they are getting married because she is pregnant, definately not the best situation to be.

Do you think they will try to have a big wedding or just a small close friends and family get together?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo

@ieatunicorns:  I don’t know about that, people tend to go a bit funny when they find out they’re going to be grandparents…. :/

OP, I hope everything turns out for the best. Do you think it would make sense to have a family conversation about this, to clear some tension? What does your Fiance think about this? 

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

@Adams_bee:  I’m not saying they won’t welcome T or at some point come to love her, but I think there is probably plenty of concern for all of them at this point. Given her history of substance abuse I am sure the FIL’s are just trying to be supportive of their son. I don’t think that at all takes away from the way they feel about the OP at all.That’s all I was trying to say:)

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