(Closed) Fearful of my Bachelorette Party!

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t want the typical bachelorette party either. I’ve been to some bachelorette parties that were a happy medium though, like we broke out the penis straws and silly games at the one girls house before we went out and then went out without all the scavenger hunts and all that. No veil, suck for a buck shirts, just girls out on the town having fun!  Do you think you could talk them into something like that?

Post # 4
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think that you could try again to explain to them why you’re uncomfortable with it or what parts make you uncomfortable, and maybe you can reach a compromise like @Natalieh86: mentioned where the penis paraphernalia stays at home and the night out is classy.

They may be telling you to ‘play along’ or whatnot, but if you really explain to them that it’s not the night you want and you won’t be enjoying yourself, they will hopefully have your best interests in mind and want you to enjoy the night and maybe tone it down a bit. 

Post # 5
2261 posts
Buzzing bee

I would sit down with one of your girls that seems most like you and understands you the best. Then really let her know, just how much you would feel uncomfortable doing something like that. She’ll hopefully then go back to the group and plan something a little more your taste.

Post # 6
9816 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Just tell them you don’t want the sex toys and hardcore stuff around. It doesn’t have to be a big deal, just mention it beforehand.

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