- 5 years ago
So we’re getting married in 11 days! I’m so excited to become his Mrs; I can’t wait for our honeymoon (2 weeks in France!); I’m excited for our day after brunch at our beautiful house we’ve worked so hard to renovate…
I sort of dread the day. I am sure many things are going to go wrong. We have a small wedding – 60 guests total – and I can’t decide whether to seat people for interesting conversation or b/c they know eachother.
We’re doing our own flowers – garden roses in mint julep cups – and I bet they’ll look silly, rather than elegant.
Our table numbers should be in frames since we hope to be outside, but I can’t bear the thought of going out and finding those right now. I just want the tent card to work!
Fiance is angry about the amount the lighting will cost, since he could hang those cafe lights it himself for much cheaper (and he’s right! but, you know, it’s our wedding day!) I bet the company gets it wrong, all the same!
The food will be terrible (even though we tasted it before!), the drinks will be mixed wrong, our ice cream treat guy will flake, etc etc etc
Oh yeah – and I bet it will rain!
Did you guys struggle with this? What were your fears, what are your worries? How can I get over it? I think what’s saddest is that I’m focusing on everyone else’s experience, not my own. I am marrying the man I love! What could go wrong? Maybe I just need to have a glass of wine every night and chill out. (Or a glass of wine right now?)
Thanks for listening to me vent.