(Closed) feel kind of pushy, and I don’t want to be…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

He might just be feeling overwhelmed– this could be on his mind now that you’ve talked about it together, so he probably doesn’t want the “lecture” again 🙂 my guy sorta gets the deer in headlights thing and its like “I know already, I need time!” So it is hard to be trusting, but you got to try. Thank goodness for the bee.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

It didn’t sound like you were being pushy!  He probably just wasn’t in the mood to talk about it, like you said.  If the rest of your wedding-y talks go fine, I wouldn’t worry too about last night! 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

With more of my friends and acquaintances getting engaged lately I do this a lot, and my SO thinks that I’m pushing for an engagement (which I am not, since he’s only recently found a job and I have little job security over the next year or so). But it is hard (I would love to be financially sound and ready to move forward).

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I don’t think it’s pushy either.  Though my SO does the samething.  Must be a male thing?

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