(Closed) Feel like FI’s family is ganging up on me…what do I do?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

If they’re the exact same way with another woman, looks like you can’t take it personally. 

Are you close enough to Future Mother-In-Law to talk to her about it? Who is telling you that “she is going on and on about how she doesn’t like me anymore.”???

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I would confront them gently. Something like, “FMIL I’m really concerned you feel like you’re being left out. We’ve specifically planned things around you and since that can’t be it, is there something else we don’t realize we’re doing?”

Likely she’ll say no, or brush it off. In which case you go, “I’m so glad to hear that, but wanted to let you know I feel like you’re unhappy with our upcoming wedding. I’ve sensed a change in our relationship over the past weeks, and I’m concerned.”

 

Something like that?

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