(Closed) Feel so bad for my FI (vent)

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010


Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw, that does suck.  I’d have all the Groomsmen revolt and plan a party they know he’ll like.  What does this guy have in mind instead of the suggestions your Fiance has given? 

Post # 5
321 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011 - Anthony’s Fine Dining

Yeah, definitely get the other Groomsmen involved.  Maybe they can outnumber the BM!

Post # 6
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I hear you on this one. My FI’s best man is his brother. He told him to decide what he wants to do, make all of the plans, and then give him a list of guys he wants to invite and he will call them. So basically he told my Fiance to do everything for his own bachelor party. Luckily I have a great relationship with my brother, who is in the wedding, and I know he will step up and plan without anyone having to ask.

Post # 7
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow that is rude of Bridesmaid or Best Man to say. Since the other guys thought what your Fiance wanted to do would be fun, he should just tell them, “hey here’s what I want to do..” and let them do it!

Then again, maybe Bridesmaid or Best Man thinks a spa party would be funner for the boys so if he’s going to be a stinker about it, he can stay home. It’s not his damn party! Tongue out

Post # 9
2703 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

awww @huney i TOTALLY understand where your comign from!

my FI’s best man is also his best friend (who got married when he was 23, Fiance threw him an AMAZING party… esp just having grad college, etc. with lil money)

anyway… FI’s Bridesmaid or Best Man can’t even afford to put even something small together, let alone even just be organized enough to get the guys to pitch in!!

my girls are taking me to vegas and i feeel SO awful… Fiance doesn’t even think he’ll even end up having a bach party… i’m trying to think of ways to coordinate something with the best man (without bruising his ego) and the rest of the GM’s… to throw him something around town at the very least…

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