(Closed) Feelin kinda bummed….

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I can definitely understand being bummed – but I don’t think many other people will notice. A lot of guests (excluding those who are planning/recently planned a wedding of their own) don’t remember those sorts of details for very long. Five months between your weddings should be plenty for people to enjoy your wedding with a ‘clean slate’ mindset.

And it’s got to be at least a little fun to see how well everything you’ve been working on can work, how good your wedding will look!

Post # 5
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

no one will notice!!! especially since your wedding is 5 months away! i can understand feeling bummed, but your weddings will still end up very different. no one but recent brides notice most of those details anyway!

Post # 6
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

If you have a different venue no matter what it will look different even if it is the exact same decor.

On another note NO one will remember the details of her wedding 5 months from now. You really have nothing to worry about.

A guest at my wedding was getting married a week after our wedding and she came up to me to tell me she chose a lot of similar things for her wedding. Honestly, when I went to her wedding it looked nothing like mine!

Just carrying on doing what you are doing and everything will be fine and your wedding will be unique!

Post # 7
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301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t think you should be too bummed….I understand wanting to be different and stand out. I am the very same way! But, it would have been alot worse if you had gone to their wedding and hated how everything turned out looking and then you would have worried forever until your wedding that yours will be looking the same way. It is great you liked it so much. It should give you even more reassurance and happiness. Maybe you could add your own unique detail to some of the things that you will be doing. It will still feel like your own wedding. And it is true that alot of guests won’t remember things. I never remember much about weddings but now that I am getting married I know I will. I am going to a wedding before mine where the bride is having a very very extravagant huge wedding, spending lots of money and I know I will compare alot because mine is going to be on a small budget but it all comes down to being happy that you are marrying the man you love and the man I love won’t be the fiance in that huge, extravagant wedding! Right?…Hope that made you feel better.

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