- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Well today I found out my step brother is getting married!! yay Im very happy for him and his Fiance. I didnt find out from them or family..from facebook. Ok theyre excited I let that be. Then I find out its two weeks before my wedding and theyre expecting. Still not upset hey she got two presents all in one! I asked my dad if they were paying for it.. he said no I am. That really hurt my feelings ALOT. Because he hasnt helped me at all. He offered to pay for the rental building for my bridal shower that made me happy. My Maid/Matron of Honor said they needed the money monday so I called my dad and asked if he would like to meet up with me and go pay. He tells me I dont have the money. It was 75 dollars! I didnt mind paying for it because it was so cheap but it still really really hurt my feelings that he is paying for their wedding.We’ve known about the place for two weeks why couldnt he pay it before blowing his money. Brothers Fiance and parents went to look at dresses today for her.
My sister and I feel as though he has thrown us aside in favor of his wifes kids. Im hurt because he hasnt shown an interest in my wedding at all but is really really excited for them. I cant even talk him in to going and looking at tuxes for him! Everytime I ask him when he’ll be able to Oh I dont know yet. I know I know he doesnt HAVE to pay for my wedding or give me money but wouldnt that hurt your feelings too?
It upset me alot because I feel like my sister and I arent good enough kids for him but we always hear about how perfect my step siblings are. Sorry for the long rant Bees.