(Closed) Feeling a little Fat

posted 5 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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aurora_bride:  omg you look stunning! No one in their right mind would ever call you fat! You are beautiful and you need to appreciate yourself more! We are our worst critics! 

Post # 3
2129 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Very Pretty dress, it looks great on you!! 

Post # 4
12 posts

You look beautiful in your dress, I know it’s easier said than done but don’t be so hard on yourself. You look perfect. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
1939 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - City, State

Wow you look AMAZING! Please don’t feel fat, you are so beautiful and your dress makes you look fab. 

Post # 6
4201 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

You look fantastic!  Honestly, if you hadn’t said you were in a size 18, I would have thought you were an 8.  Your dress is incredibly flattering!  I would make sure to up your water intake if you don’t normally drink a ton of water so that you’re glowing on your wedding day ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
3242 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

You do not look fat! At all. You look stunningly beautiful and your body is lush! Your shape is sexy and hot. I love it. I would so your fiance is going to flip! 

Post # 8
11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Girl I’m gonna be honest with you. Wth are you seeing? You look amazing! Your figure is great, your waist goes in. I do not see a fat person. At all. You look beautiful!


rock your gorgeous self!

Post # 9
3287 posts
Sugar bee

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aurora_bride:  1- You look stunning. 2- You can’t beat yourself up for what you think you should have done. 3- bridal sizing is a sick joke. Keeping chugging and enjoy your day. 

Post # 10
3088 posts
Sugar bee

Girl, you know damn well you are not even close to fat.


Like, seriously (and I am known for being BRUTALLY honest).

Post # 11
253 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Hi! I feel your pain! Just to make you feel better, I got married al,lost a year and a half ago and then had a baby about 2 months ago. I was heavier on my wedding day than it was when I was 9 months pregnant with my daughter. my dress had to be let out about 4 inches (I grew 3 inches and 4 cup sizes in my bust ๐Ÿ˜‘)! I didn’t order small either! So I feel your pain! Every time I look back on the pictures I feel sad because I know I didn’t look my best, but honestly…there isn’t one person who judges you more than yourself. I think you look great in your dress and would never think you look like a size 18! Just cut out the tag and forget about the number! You look fantastic and are going to be a beautiful bride! 

Post # 12
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016 - Theater

Shh. Shhh. Take this. It’s a chill pill. Shh.


Honestly though, I understand you’re more upset because you fell short off a goal than the actual weight. The weight is what you’re seeing, sure, but you are not by any stretch oozing out of your dress so I would not worry one bit about that. You still look quite trimmed to me, so I’m sure you’ve been excercising? You look charming the size you are.

25 days is plenty of time to take good care of yourself. Allow an indulgence once a week. Eat clean and healthy with colorful vegetables and fruit. Drink water and avoid extra spicy extra salty extra sugary foods. Don’t exercise too hard, damaged muscles will retain water as they heal. But do keep daily activity up even if it’s just house chores or a leisurely walk.  I recommend dancing by yourself, it not only picks up your heart rate but also makes you feel a lot happier. (This is how I’m cheating post-emigration depression and it works)

Above all else, do not beat yourself up. The world is cruel enough as is, you don’t need to be your own enemy. Be a friend to yourself. You are a lovely creature and you deserve to feel that way.

Post # 13
1992 posts
Buzzing bee

Seriously? -___-

There are 25 days left. It’s a waste to worry at this point. You’re not fat. Get on with the rest of your final wedding details.

Post # 14
968 posts
Busy bee

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aurora_bride:  hello fellow PCOS lady! It’s poo isn’t it… I think you look stunning in your dress, absolutely perfect <3 and the buttons… and the bustle… Wow!! Try not to worry as hard as it is, you look great ๐Ÿ™‚

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