Post # 31
anon1 : My boyfriend and I never discussed numbers. We ballparked it. I asked for a number with a range of 10 (i.e. teens, 20s, 30s, so on). He answered, I told him I’m more than that and we left it at that.
Sometimes I feel guilty about this as well but it doesn’t matter.
Post # 32
- Wedding: November 2025 - City, State
lifeisbeeutiful : That certainly is not what I was trying to convey.
Post # 33
I didn’t think guys cared about that crap anymore lol!! I had my fair share of hook ups and some friends with benefits. I know I’ve slept with basically double my SO, but like… he gives zero shit about it. He loves me and he loves that I’m confident and that I know what I like and what I don’t like. He didn’t like hook ups … which just blew my mind. I guess I just was with so many buttholes that I just thought they were all gross and would rather just bang a chick and not have any attachments, but I was so so so wrong. My SO loves having an emotional connection with me and I’m so happy I found him
Post # 34
blondie603 : I don’t think most mature guys do lol my husband has never asked. He has never even asked for details about my past actual relationship. He knows I was cheated on and that is it. It’s more my own guilt and I suppose it’s just because I have matured and my way of thinking is diff now. It seems our opinions of men were similar. I used to think they were all a holes but my husband is certainly not one and apparently never was Haha which is great!
Post # 35
Like so many PPs have said, your past is past. Focus on the now. It sounds like you’re doing so well and have so much to be thankful for. There just is no point in dragging any dirt from a life long gone.
When my hubby and I met we were both openly dating others but within a week of our 1st date he let the others know he had found someone (which I thought was fast). One even called him while we were out one night and he told her he was out on a date . She got so jealous even though she was dating another too. It didn’t bother me one bit, I had to laugh.
We never discussed how many other relationships we’ve had.. I just never cared to know and did NOT want to know any names. My thing. To this day we never discussed it. There’s just no point. We chose each other and that’s all that matters now.
No need to feel bad about your past.