(Closed) Feeling a little pathetic….

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@LilMonkey:  my friend and I went to a bridal show before I was engaged! haha and tried on lots of erings together. 

Post # 4
12259 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@LilMonkey:  75% of the women at wedding shows aren’t actually engaged! They’re just fun.

I spent TONS of time staring at wedding dresses online before I got engaged!

Post # 5
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

Aww sweety, people have done way crazier things than that XD


I’ve spent evenings finding “affordable” engagement rings, “considering “affordable” high street dresses and one time I looked up a lot of the local venues in the area just to see what to expect. Generally I do feel kinda pathetic afterwards but in the end it doesn’t really matter, I’m not *actually* planning anything and I’m not bombarding BF with any of it so where’s the harm really? Just something to do on a lonely evening 🙂

Post # 7
3249 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@LilMonkey:  Oh no, I’m sorry it made you feel sad. 🙁 

I have been buying antique glass buttons online, to use on my dress (which I will be making once we get engaged). They are hard to find, so when I come across some that are the right kind, I snatch them up. It was a little awkward when my SO admired the first lot of them I bought– he asked what they were for. I said, “oh, just some project someday– I really like this kind of button and they’re hard to find.” I’m always planning new sewing projects, so that was fairly plausible– but I still wonder if he suspects.

I’ve been very tempted to go into jewelry stores and look at e-rings, by myself. I haven’t because I know it would make me feel super weird. But sometimes where you’re with friends, doing things like that seem more tempting. :/


Post # 8
2278 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with looking around a wedding show 🙂 I spent lots of time looking at rings and flower arrangements before I was engaged.

Post # 9
1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

My friends and I made a HUGE Pinterest board for my fall wedding before I was even engaged. By the time he had proposed, I had already looked at caterers, florists and venues <_< Lol Nothing wrong with that!

Post # 10
345 posts
Helper bee

Well, I think I’ve got you all beat:

When my daughter was 16 WE tried on prom dresses together. 

I had to have help getting out of mine….(wasn’t overweight, just that dress was tight, lol)

Have fun with this!  with LIFE

Post # 11
1145 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@LilMonkey:  as long as no big time purchases were made. I call it pre-planning/ research. I’ve designed my dress and have gotten a quote on it.

Post # 12
2633 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

If that’s your only reason for feeling pathetic then boy am I a HUGE loser! I’ve always been facsinated with ALL things wedding. I’m an addict for sure. Don’t feel pathetic. Put on your optimism overalls and remember that your proposal IS coming and you will soon be able to dive into the world of weddings!


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