(Closed) Feeling a little put off…(vent)

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 49
68 posts
Worker bee

Wow. That’s all I can say.  Wow.

First – It’s one thing to say that you want a particular theme for your shower or to say you want it more formal or more simple, but IMO it’s flat out rude to insist that it be exactly like this or that.  It’s a party thrown by others for you to help you get started in your new life. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with her planning out her bachelorette party, but if she wants something extravagant/expensive, she shouldn’t be expecting others to pay for the whole thing. She should help pay for it.

Second – It’s beyond rude for her to expect you to pay $$ for her parties and not be willing to do the same for you.  If she can’t afford or doesn’t want to afford your parties, she needs to take that into consideration for her own.

Third – She’s expecting to make money on her wedding?!?! AND, she’s going around telling people this?!?! Maybe her guests should get wind of what she’s saying.  Just a thought.

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