(Closed) Feeling Apathetic… Normal? (LONG)

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1089 posts
Bumble bee

Does he KNOW that you are waiting to be engaged before you move in together? 

The whole having to be engaged before moving in together gets tricky.  Believe me, I know.  🙁  I don’t at all blame you for not wanting to up and move there without any sort of formal committment.  I would try to be honest with him about this.  Is it possible that he doesn’t want to propose until you make the committment to move with him?

Did you guys talk about when you’d like to get married and for how long you’d expect to be engaged before the wedding?  Could this at all be affecting his decision to propose?

I just know that when SO and I get upset about these kinds of things it’s usually a misunderstanding, or better yet, a lack of communication. 

On the other hand, if you are really starting to doubt things, may be you’re on to something.  This is something only you can decide.  No one knows you, your SO, or your relationship like you do.  I would ask myself, “Am I looking for a proposal because I can’t imagine my life without this man?”

SIDE NOTE:  I don’t mean this to be offensive in any way.  I just know from past experience that when I feel something in my gut, I’m usually right. . .but then again, sometimes we get in a waiting rut and start to doubt things even though there is nothing to doubt. 

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