- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
DH and I are working on getting ready to TTC, but due to job issues, distance, etc. we aren’t ready yet. My younger brother and SIL just had their second baby. They have both a boy and a girl. While I am happy for them, I feel a little weird. While we got married a few months apart, they are both four years younger than us. I was initially sad about not having the first grandchild (even though we weren’t ready for a kid), but I was hoping they would have two of the same sex so we could have the first of something. No such luck. I hope this doesn’t make me sound like a terrible person- I am really glad they’re healthy, I just wanted to be the first in some way. To make matters worse, my other brother is getting married soon and I would be surprised if they don’t have kids right away.
Please give me some insight. Thanks bees!