- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
The wedding is in 11 days and I’m kinda feeling bad for Fiance. My friends and family gave me a great shower a little while ago and I know that work is planning a surprise shower next week (one of my co-workers is really bad at keeping secrets! lol). We’re having a small-ish destination wedding (40 people) and my girls have even planned a breakfast for the day before the wedding. His friends and family have done nothing to celebrate and I KNOW they’re happy for us cause they’ve been bugging Fiance for years that it was time to put a ring on my finger! Lol His office has said they’re going to do something, but this was his last Friday at work before the wedding and there was nothing (they typically do stuff like this on Fridays).
Fiance doesn’t drink and isn’t in to partying. I know he wouldn’t want a ‘traditional’ bachelor party. It would have been nice though if the guys had organized golfing or something when we arrived at the destination. Gosh, dinner would have been nice, but no one has thought of it.
I’ve suggested to Fiance that he should get some of the guys together and do something while the girls are out at breakfast, but he doesn’t want to take anyone away from their vacation. Furthermore, he says that if the girls are all out, the guys need to stay back and look after the kids. I love him for it, but it’s just sad to me. 🙁
I could ask my cousin (who’s a GM) to do something, but he doesn’t know many of the other guys and I think he’d feel awkward. I don’t even really know the other Groomsmen that well as they live all across the country.
Is this just a guy thing?