(Closed) Feeling Betrayed…. :(

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 4
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

OF COURSE you’re not crazy for being upset about this! Would it help the situation if they knew why you ended the relationship? It just seems cruel that they’re doing this 🙁 *hugs* and apologies that I don’t have better advice!

Post # 5
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660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am so sorry this is happening to you. You are not crazy to feel this way at all. hugs!

Post # 7
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840 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

please let them know what an ASS your ex-husband was! they ought to know the truth. I worry that the more he hangs out with them, perhaps he’ll be able to twist the events so they blame you more. even so, I’m amazed they’d rather stand by his side than yours. sometimes religion can really be a hinderance to common sensibilities. you’re their daughter!! you’re the real family! aghhh. I hope things improve!

Post # 9
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210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

This is ridiculous; I’m so sorry.  You have every right to feel hurt and betrayed.  I’m not sure how you might get through to your family–would they even read an email? A letter?  Take a phone call?  (Do they have caller ID?)  Whatever happens, I wish you the best…

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

show up at their doorsteps and say hey look, this is ridiculous, let me talk to you and explain my side of things. do you think they’re still inviting/talking to your ex-husband in hopes that someday you two will get back together?

Post # 13
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210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@FutureMrsPatterson:

I figured.  Do you have any friends who are also friends of your family and could maybe get a message in for you verbally?  That would be asking a lot of them, but seriously, if they refuse to even acknowledge your communication, you have few options.  I wonder if your family will loosen up over time.

Post # 15
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611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Honey, this is heartbreaking. I can only hope they will come to their senses and realize you are more important than their rules. 🙁

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

How sad that religion, something which is supposed to be based on love, compassion, and forgiveness, is also the root cause of exclusion and heartbreak in your case. I am not, nor know anyone religious enough to know what to do, but if it was me I’d move FAR away with my new Fiance and write off my hateful, exclusive family pretty much forever. Good riddance.

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