(Closed) Feeling Blue… I Hate Cancer!

posted 5 years ago in Wellness
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

I’m sorry too. I haven’t had cancer but these days many women do deal with it at some point in life.

Your story reminds me a little bit of that celebrity, Guiliana … I forgot her last name, Rakik? her husband is Bill from The Apprentice, although hopefully your case is not as serious as hers, but she was TTC, and having trouble, and then next thing I heard, she had breast cancer (I assume they found it when they were looking for why she was having trouble conceiving…I guess it could mess with the hormones?) Still, the way she and her husband dealt with it was inspiring and they now have a child (even though it had to be with the help of a surrogate mother) and overall it seems like they have a beautiful, “real” life, a solid marriage with deep love for one another, and basically a whole lot more going on than most celebrities do. I guess I see her as a breast cancer success story, she wasn’t defeated by it at all. She shines brighter than most.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m sorry you are going through this…I do have a happy story though…

My ex (we’re still friends) had testicular cancer, one removed and chemo “down there”….was told he’d never be able to have children..

I miscarried with him (never told him, I was young, scared, etc)…this was 12 years ago

He now has a baby girl and a second one on the way!  So you NEVER know…it’s amazing what bodies can do….

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think it is well within reason to have days where you feel like you do right now. I certainly don’t blame you for not wanting to do surgery recovery, chemo, and IVF treatments all at once and all during the holidays!

Cancer sucks, but you definitely don’t! Hang in there, I will be thinking of you and hoping for the very best 🙂

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