- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
FI’s stag is next weekend. FI feels uncomfortable about his guys throwing a “fundrasing” party in his name in the first place. Fiance would’ve been totally happy with a camping trip or paintball or something … he felt even worse when he had to sell tickets to people at his work at the request of the best man…
Apparently the stag will be held at his friend’s house. His friends are great. Sweet personalities and funny (so we know they mean well)… but his friend’s house (where the party will be hosted) is a total dump 3 walks short of a run down trailerpark kind of place…
I think the house could be condemnable. There are unspayed/neutered cats everywhere, the porch is falling apart, the washrooms are in “pre-reno” condition (exposed walls and pipes etc) and absolutely FILTHY.
They plan on doing “fundraising” games… like poker and apparently something to do with pellet guns..
I am feeling so sad for Fiance who is putting on a brave face. He will go and enjoy and make the most of what the guys have planned for him (but I really feel that it was crappy planning to be totally honest)… But to me, this totally sounds like a redneck bbq (no offense to anyone who likes it that way).
I am even tempted to look into renting a bus to take the guys to a local strip club later on in the night when the party is going to bomb. I feel really anxious for him… is there anything I can do? Maybe we should do a private do-over afterwards… =(
EDIT: I tried talking to the Best Man but he says that we can’t discuss it because I am the bride and I’m not supposed to know what goes on…