Feeling depressed after Fallopian tube removal :(

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
6296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

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BeepBopB00p :  Omg.  I am so so sorry.  That is so traumatic, and just another hit in this process for you.  I really hope you get your sticky bean soon.  Thinking of you during this difficult time <3

Post # 3
5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

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BeepBopB00p :  can you just go straight into IVF in the future? With 1 tube i wouldn’t risk anymore with another IUI.

Post # 5
348 posts
Helper bee

I’m so sorry you lost your babe and your tube. What a traumatic experience – definitely take some time off to recover mentally and physically.

IVF sounds like it is definitely the way to go – your DH will understand I am sure. 

Post # 6
134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I’m so incredibly sorry, bee. What a horrible experience you have been through! I have also had one of my tubes removed however, mine twisted and nearly ruptured when I was 15. Of course at the time I was not TTC so my main concern was that at some point in the future, I could still have children. While I am still not ready for a baby, I have had only one tube for over a decade and my reproductive system has continued to function as my doctor said it would. I can only imagine how difficult and traumatic this is for you right in the midst of your baby journey and I wish you and your husband all the best. Sending lots of love and healing to you during this time.

Post # 7
233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018 - England

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BeepBopB00p :  i am so sorry this happened to you. It must have been awful, but if it’s any consolation, my mum had an ectopic pregnancy and went on to have 4 children including un-identical twins! 

Post # 8
1490 posts
Bumble bee

My heart goes out to you. It’ll get better. Be kind to yourself. 

Post # 9
412 posts
Helper bee

Bee im so so sorry. Iv been there & it is extremely traumatic. After about 15 months ttc with a lap & dye my end and supplements & lifestlyle change for dh we finally conceived naturally. We were over the moon only for me to be rushed to hospital at 7+5 weeks after a ruptured tube . I lost 2.5 litres of blood & had 4 blood tranfusions and  was told i was very lucky to be alive. Absolutely devastating. 

We quickly moved onto ivf but unfortunately we discovered i was a poor responder to stims so i had in quick succession 2 cycles  cancelled,  then  2 chemicals from my fresh & frozen transfer. Moved clinics and a further cancelled cycle and then a natural ivf cycle  (collected just the 1 egg i was ovulating that month) and here i am 16+2 weeks pregnant. I feel so so blessed but ill never forget that precious soul we lost but im grateful to be here and to finally be expecting. 

There are some good support forums you can seek out which helped me enormously to continue to have hope that ill still have a baby but to also know its ok to grieve not only for your loss but the loss of your tube. Im so sorry your going through this but it a fantastic sign for a successful ivf that you have conceived via iui. 

Post # 10
7556 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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BeepBopB00p :  I’m so sorry! That must have been terrifying and so traumatic! Big hugs to you. Wishing you a speedy recovery 

Post # 11
5727 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry. 2 hours in the waiting room is f-ing ridiculous, just adding insult to injury. Stay strong and be well.

Post # 12
4375 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

So so sorry Bee. Sending you peace comfort and strength 

Post # 13
3734 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

I’m so sorry!  What a crappy string of things you’ve had  🙁  I hope you recover quickly and that IVF is a good solution for you.  Hugs <3

Post # 14
1203 posts
Bumble bee

I am so so sorry Bee. You have been through a truly traumatic period and I hope both you and your husband have a good support system around you as you get through this. Take all the time you need to heal and give yourself lots of grace. I hope you get your rainbow soon ❤️

Post # 15
736 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Backyard

How terrible! I am so sorry you had to go through all that on top of infertility struggles, it is truly unfair! Hope you can take some time to rest and heal. 

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