Feeling depressed after Fallopian tube removal :(

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
2552 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

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BeepBopB00p :  idk, i think who actually failed you was the emergency admittance people. Sorry for your loss 😞

Post # 17
1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - California

I am so sorry for your loss and for the traumatic experience you are enduring. I hope you get to finally have some rest this weekend. 

Post # 18
3847 posts
Honey bee

I’m sorry you went through that, and that you are struggling. I do not have either of my tubes, although I do have a son from a successful IUI with one tube, and another on the way from IVF.

I struggled with whether to comment on this, because while I’ve been in your shoes, I did not, and do not, feel less for not having tubes. For me, it actually brought closure to my infertility journey. Everything looked totally fine on paper, so when I had ectopics, it was finally clear that the issue was not that my whole system just wouldn’t function, it was my damn tubes. Ultimately, it didn’t stop me from having a child or feeling like me. That’s not to say that I didn’t cry when it happened. I cried hard in the hospital when I woke up and was given the news. It’s not what anyone wants to happen, but you are still you, you are still a woman, and you can still have babies. Big hugs.

Post # 19
1928 posts
Buzzing bee

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BeepBopB00p :  Oh my gosh, I’m SO sorry to hear this. This sucks so much. You did nothing wrong and your body didn’t fail you – the people at the ER should have rushed you into an ultrasound much sooner. I’m so sorry.

I hope that IVF works out for you in the future, when you’re ready again. ♥ Take care of yourself.

Post # 20
1396 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

How absolutely awful, I am so so sorry that you’ve had to go through all of these things. Sending you warm and healing vibes.

Post # 21
159 posts
Blushing bee

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BeepBopB00p :  Oh Bee I am so beyond sorry. If you feel as though it could help your process, you definitely have grounds to complain regarding how the ER treated you. Also please remeber that your reproductive system is not what makes you a woman. I promise you that I know many incredible and strong women with no reproductive system at all, they are not less worthy. You are not less worthy. You are not less of a woman or any other cruel thought your mind is telling you during this hard time. I’m so sorry you are going through this. You’ve gone through so much Bee, it is only natural that it is taking its toll. I always suggest therapy because it has done wonders for me, so maybe that could be worth exploring? I have found it a wonderful support when facing difficulties. Thinking of you x

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