(Closed) Feeling Detached to FI.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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748 posts
Busy bee

It’s normal to feel that way sometimes during your engagement, it’s all about the fear of marriage. Marriage is permanent, it’s “for life”, and it can be scary to trust that you have made the right decision, to not doubt whether there’s someone else out there. I think it’s a great idea for you to see a counselor, that’ll help you get everything in order. Also, don’t marry him just because he’s a “great guy”, make sure you really love him enough to marry him and that he’s your best friend. And try to relax, meditate, whatever. You just seem really stressed out about this and anxious. Def go see a counselor, it’ll help.

Post # 4
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think every bride goes through that at some point, but rarely talk about it for fear that everyone will question their decision to get married. Brides are always expected to put on this front that they are over-the-moon excited and happy and that wedding planning is the best thing since sliced bread. We all know deep down that this is not true.

You do need to sort through your feelings and find out if this is just a small case of cold feet or a gut feeling that you two should not get married. Counseling will really help.

Good luck! 🙂

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