(Closed) Feeling Disappointed (just venting)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Oh, I totally get you Mrs C to be! You wanted the whole thing to be ultra romatic and a secret until he surprises you with the ring out of the blue at a lovely candlelit dinner (or similar). And now you’ve ended up having to orchestrate the whole thing! It seems like your unofficial Fiance is keen to get married – but you gotta make him work for it girl! Tell him you love him, that in theory you are OK to get married at some point, but that you’re done with orchestrating your own proposal – he has to do some of that himself. Ask him not to talk about it anymore until he’s ready to properly propose (with or without the ring, up to you if you wnat to have some input or make him pick it). when your parents and in-laws talk about it say ‘It’s up to “(FI)”, I am not sure what’s happening” or similar. Basically be evasive and vague until you have that ring on your finger – it makes a huge difference…:)

Good Luck!

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