(Closed) Feeling down: it was going to be tomorrow…Hard waiting day

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@alsgirl:  I’m sorry you are having a hard time right now. In all honesty, a man will do it when he wants to do it. You have to decide how long you want to wait. He will propose when he is ready, in his mind. 

Post # 4
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150 posts
Blushing bee

alsgirl Keep Strong! have you tried mr bees plan 2? We are about a year off and waiting is so hard! But I found the plan really works: I was so good for a month! started yoga, got a new job, really focussed on uni and my partner was like “wow you are smashing everything and even brought up marriage a few times himself”. Also try going on dates with your SO to remin him how awsum you two are ๐Ÿ™‚ That worked for me, apparently I would have got my ring on our date last week but he hadnt organised it yet gah! Goodluck!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

@alsgirl:  I’m sorry you’re having a hard time with this. I was totally in your shoes (in some ways) in March. My boyfriend lost his job in December and was planning on proposing 3/13/13 had he not…he told me this on our anniversary in January. As it neared March 13th, my spirits kept heading downward. He got a job a couple weeks ago and once he gets back up and going like he was again and pays a few things off, a ring will be in the works! ๐Ÿ™‚

Keep your chin up and try to keep yourself busy tomorrow and for the next few days!

 

Post # 7
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1995 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

@alsgirl:  YAY! That’s awesome!! So happy (and slightly jealous of you! haha) for you!!!!!!! Keep us updated.

Post # 8
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924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Am I the only person here who doesn’t like the whole “He said a couple of months ago that he was postponing it for a few months because I didn’t get a job for this year”

Sounds like he is ‘punishing’ you for being unemployed.  Who the F does he think he is, your father?

 

Post # 9
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245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

the day will come! keep your chin up high.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Baal:  I read it as more wanting both to be financially stable since in the next line he said it was a money issue. 

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