Post # 1
I love attending other weddings, but sometimes I just feel guilty accepting invites!! I wonder if the bride really wants me there, if they’re hoping that people RSVP “no” so their numbers are lower and I feel bad about how much it costs for the bride and groom to host me. Does anyone else feel this way?
Post # 3
I feel like that. For example, I invited one of my former classmates that I was fairly close to to my wedding. I knew she was on a tight budget and she is having a Destination Wedding. A few weeks after she received our invitation, she asked us for our address and sent us her STD. I’m pretty sure she felt obligated to send it to us because we invited her and honestly, I didn’t expect her to reciprocate the invite.
Post # 4
I sometimes feel like this too! I just try to remember that we are all adults and can make our own decisions about planning and finances. Hopefully, they will accept our responses regardless of attending/ non-attending.