(Closed) feeling guilty about cost of wedding

posted 7 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Be thankful and enjoy it ๐Ÿ™‚ I get where you are coming from though, my parents have been overly generous to the point I don’t even know where they got the money to give us. 

 Sorry if this is rude, but do you know if you’re under the typical wedding price in your area? FH and I are WAY below average and this thought helps me when I feel guilty ๐Ÿ˜› 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If they arent complaining and can afford it, dont worry and just roll with it.   The only reason I’d have a problem with it is if I knew they were paying for it and couldnt afford it or had to sacrafice aspects of their own life.

Post # 6
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1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@girlwiththeredhair: I feel the EXACT same way, glad to know I’m not the only one. I just keep thinking, I’m their only daughter so this is gonna be the only wedding they have to pay for! haha

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t worry too much. Yes, food and guest list is a huge part of that and chances are your parents WANT to feed people well and want guests there. I bet they are inviting people they know as well, so no worries. 

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