(Closed) Feeling kind of neglected.. and pmsing.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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6215 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I think you should borrow my approach. I call my Fiance and say, “Do something nice for me today” and see what he comes up with. I think you’re feeling over worked and under appreciated. Does he work nights? If not, he needs a job #2!

Post # 4
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2840 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@mayflowerbride13:  I’m sorry you’re having a rough time. Have you told him all of this? 

Post # 6
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6215 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Even if he shouldn’t have to ask your permission, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have to make it up to you for amking your life a lot harder! People who are on call can cook you dinner and give you back rubs and make sure you know how much they appreciate all you are doing.

Post # 7
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2840 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@mayflowerbride13:  Girl, if the man I was going to marry and share the rest of my life with thought he didn’t have to have my buy in on a new business… and didn’t change his mind on that stance… then he wouldn’t be the man I was going to marry and share the rest of my life with.  Mostly because there’d be things he wasn’t sharing with me that would ultimately affect me.

He didn’t discuss it with you but it is still affecting you – negatively. That’s not right.

Post # 8
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84 posts
Worker bee

@mayflowerbride13:  “I have and I haven’t. I have to an extent, but then get discouraged because he makes me feel guilty and basically says he shouldn’t have to ask my permission to start a company.”

That’s false.  While “permission” is the wrong word, starting a business is a big deal that should be discussed thoroughly by both people.  He should have, without a doubt, talked to you at length before doing this.  With that said, you have no excuse for telling us — strangers you’ve never met — how you feel about this issue before talking to him.  Talking to us won’t fix it.  Talking ot him might. 

Post # 9
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2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@MeiFrancis:  i tried a similar approach! “tuesday is romantic surprise day. lets see what we can both come up with”. worked pretty wellactually!

sorry OP it sounds v stressful. fingers crossed itgets better soon!

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