- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
So ladies my Maid/Matron of Honor flew in this weekend to through me a Bach party. I had a blast and appreciate her flying down from NY. The only thing is we hadn’t seen each other in 2 years eventhough we talk on the phone everyday. I have known her for 6 years.
She used to be a big party girl and even the last time I saw her she was a big party girl. She is now datng this guy that’s a doctor and he’s Jewish and she’s Christian. I almost feel like she’s losing herself trying to get him to marry her. She just didn’t seem to have as much fun and seemed ultraconservative. He’s very conservative so I feel like she is moding herself for him.I feel like she is talking about marriage way too much considering the position of their relationship but I talk about with her to entertain her.
Anyway we bought a house a 1 1/2 ago and we renovated everything and I am getting married in 2 weeks. But the sad part is she seemed not happy at all for me about the house and I took her to see my dress so she could learn the bustle and she was like we’ll figure it out. After she couldnt get it right and I had the biggest Bridezilla moment. Like umm no we won’t figure it out I spent a lot of money on this dress and the bustle is up for 90% of the wedding. I just feel like she doesn’t care and was more supportive before she came down and seen how good we are doing. Cause all she talks about is money and her new place in his money. Butt I never brag on anything to her so I don’t think she expected it to be as nice as it is cause I never build up my material things I hate doing that.
She was not that responsive to my dress or any of the other wedding projects. She even almost looked sad when I talked about how great my Fiance is and how I was getting emotional writing my vows.
I honetly feel like she’s letting this guy change her and in she not really happy but she is hanging on to him for the chance at financial security. So it making her not be happy for me.
Thanks for letting me vent.